I am imagining you or your partner are feeling pretty frustrated, sad, lost, or alone at this point in your relationship. You may think you are the only ones having these problems or you may have tried for a long time to fix things and nothing has worked. I get it. You feel stuck in a place of constant tension, disrespect, dismissal or loneliness.
What I offer as a couples therapist are solutions and strategies on how to navigate your way through arguments, how to talk and hear your partner, understand why things are happening in the first place, and how to clarify your wants and needs all in a safe and confidential setting.
I am a compassionate, empathetic, and interactive therapist. I find that having an on-going dialogue with my clients is much more helpful, it strengthens our relationship, and certainly makes everyone feel much more comfortable (as I've been told). I firmly believe you can work through issues, even a betrayal, and have a better relationship in the end.
Solutions and strategies when trust and communication are broken, you're feeling unloved, and mostly trying to solve the same old arguments
Tools and support when you have learned of an affair and help to decide whether to stay or leave